Raising a Blue Moon

First of all, let me reassure you that you were a planned baby, no accidents, no oops, more like an aha moment for us. We got married 5 years ago in my hometown, Culiacan, Mexico, on a scorching summer day. We had a lovely Catholic ceremony at a church with air conditioning (thank God for that!), and we proceed to party the night away until 4 am. Your father and I have been together since September 30, 2006, right now, which almost equals 8 years together. We love each other (some days more than others, but that is understandable). We are thrilled to become parents, and we had some practice with our little furry son, Ewok. Both of us are children of divorce. Although the circumstances for both of our parents' divorces were different, we both agreed that it was a painful time in our lives and wouldn't wish it upon anybody.  Because of our personal history, we take this commitment very seriously. We enter our marriage a little more aware than other couples with the notion...